Isnin, 19 April 2010

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Hari ini saya menerima email dari seorang rakan penggiat Hukum Tarikan di Australia. Dia selalu berkongsi dengan saya tentang pengalaman-pengalaman yang dilaluinya dan juga teknik-teknik yang digunakan dalam mengaplikasikan Hukum Tarikan. Mari kita luangkan sedikit masa untuk sama-sama berkongsi tentang apa yang baru dilalui oleh beliau semalam.

You'll never guess what happened to me ...
Monday, 19 April, 2010 2:47 PM

Hi Talhah,

I was getting my morning coffee the other day, I'd parked out the
front like I normally do.

I just got out of my car, when someone drove out of a side street,
in a real hurry, didn't see my car and drove straight into the back
of it!

I raced over to the other driver, and asked if she was ok?

Much to my surprise, she started abusing me, telling me what an
idiot I was for parking in that spot, that I should always check
behind before I come to stop, and a list of a whole lot of other
claims that were clearly making the entire thing my fault.

I could feel my natural defenses rising up within me. I could hear
the voice inside my head saying that I don't have to take this. And
it was at that point I said, "How about we go inside, I'll buy you
a coffee and some breakfast, and we can talk about what to do from
here?"

You see, I COULD feel my defenses rising and I COULD hear my voice
saying not to take this, and I choose NOT to follow those
instructions.

Every minute of everyday, we are getting messages in the form of
emotions, on what to do and what not to do. It happens in subtle
ways a lot more often than you realize.

Our emotions guide us, based on our beliefs and values. Sometimes
the guidance is awesome, and other times it could not be more wrong.

Its only when you have the ability to hear, feel and see your
emotions from a kind of third person position, that you can decide
if its what you want to do, or not.

You take control, you have choice.

Right now, if you don't have everything that you want, its because
you've been following your emotional guidance system without
questioning it. In subtle little ways, its taking you on the
journey that has been programmed by your beliefs.

Its time to take control, to put the choice back into your life,
and the first step is meditation.


Dari apa yang saya lihat didalam email dari rakan saya ini, jelas menunjukkan, kita perlu bertenang dalam menghadapi apa jua suasana, dan MENGAWAL DIRI dari mengikutkan gejolak nafsu amarah. Walaupun beliau bukan orang Islam yang tidak pernah belajar tentang konsep sabar, muhasabah, qada' dan qadar seperti kita, tetapi dengan mengaplikasikan konsep Hukum Tarikan dan Bersikap Positif, beliau berjaya mengalahkan dan mengawal kemarahannya. Saya berasa malu kerana sebagai orang Islam, sepatutnya, kita lebih tenang dan bersabar dalam menghadapi situasi seperti yang dilalui oleh beliau. Tetapi, saya sendiri tidak pasti, apakah tindakan saya jika saya yang berada ditempat beliau. semoga saya juga akan dapat bertindak tenang seperti itu.

You take control, you have choice. Kamu Berupaya Mengawal Keadaan, Kamu Mempunyai Pilihan


taalidi

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